The Solitude of Flowers

The Solitude of Flowers


I like flowers and as with most things I like, the more of them the better. Big bunches of blooms are irresistible to me and I enjoy flower markets almost as much as I enjoy libraries (For me, if there is heaven, it’ll be a library with high quality tea and flower arrangements. And people dressing up for reading.). In Belgium, it’s much easier and cheaper to indulge in flowers than it is in Estonia and I have taken full advantage of that.

Recently, however, I’ve been thinking about the origin and the real cost of flowers. It’s one of those unpleasant subjects where the reality is probably not quite as pretty as a flower. While I’m not hugely knowledgeable on this issue, I know that if something is cheap for me, chances are the price is paid by someone else. And that someone else is likely the worker at a Kenyan flower farm.

Calla lily

I’m not going to pretend that I have fully reformed, I’m sure I’ll buy bunches of flowers in the future and not all of them will be sustainably grown. But I will make an effort to find fairer options. And I am considering how to use more local blooms and things from my own garden and also, how to do more with less.

As you can see, I’ve been trying to find ways of making single blooms look good. I admit that it’s much easier with handfuls of peonies: you just chuck them in a random container and they’ll look amazing. When you use less, getting a result requires more thought: about the colours, proportions, the size and shape of the vase. But of course it can be done and I think there is something powerful about a solitary flower.

Small anonymous flower

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  1. 1
    Ruth Gordon

    I love fresh flowers, but like you I sometimes have to wonder about the cost to the grower and workers. I live in a small flat and have compensated for that by growing LOTS of plants on my windowsills. Some of them are more like trees now! I must have green around me, that I know. Libraries? Being surrounded by books is seriously lovely.

    • 2
      Ykkinna

      Ruth, your windowsills sound lovely. I’m not good at growing things, but I love the result when others do. I believe most people feel better with some greenness around, some just feel it more acutely than others. Books have a similar effect on me, I simply feel so much better when there are books around and don’t really understand how a home can be without them.

  2. 3
    bardot

    Your solitary flowers look lovely and I am especially taken by your choice of vases! I like flowers but they are not bought or displayed in my house that often (somehow that huge vase full of flowers always seems to get in the way no matter what table I may place them on).
    I have tried growing outdoor flowers to no avail. this year I am planting nothing…rather I am going to focus my attention on growing some out outdoor herbs (quite useful for cooking) and lavender.
    Have a lovely weekend!

    • 4
      Ykkinna

      I’m not much of a gardener either, but some family members are better, so we do have some flowers and herbs, too. I’m a huge fan of herbs and having sage and rosemery growing just outside makes me very happy.

      I think all those vases are from Habitat, so not expensive, but probably not available in US?

  3. 5
    bardot

    But I do have plum blossom trees and a lilac bush that rewards me with lovely flowers, albeit fleeting in time! yet they return year after year and I don’t have to lift a finger 🙂 !!

  4. 7
    Holly

    Your solitary flowers are lovely. I often do that myself, and I sometimes put interesting rocks or twigs or branches in the vase. Not anywhere close to the sophistication of ikebana, but I enjoy it. I always have potted orchids in the house as I find them surreally fascinating and the blooms last forever. They’re pretty inexpensive here. I hadn’t actually thought about where cut flowers are sourced from when they’re sold in cold climates. Then I started thinking about fruits and vegetables and we could keep going. Here in the states a lot of stuff is imported from Chile during the off-seasons. I remember my first visit to Hawaii and discovering that fresh pineapple wasn’t readily available as they were all being processed in the Dole factory.

    And ah … libraries. I love your idea, although I’d prefer it in a book store where interaction is invited more than in libraries. If book stores were still around …

    • 8
      Ykkinna

      I love orchids, too, but I’m not good with potted plants, so we don’t have any. We have a small garden, that helps: we can see it through our big kitchen windows and it makes it seem greener inside as well.

      And yes, book stores. I’m in fact going to visit Brussels Waterstones today. It’s a decent one and the staff are very nice, but it’s not big enough for my taste 🙂

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