10 Books I Read in March
Another month, another good reading streak. I could probably have read more in the end of March, as we had the long Easter weekend, but made a conscious decision to do other things as well – cook, spring clean, watch movies, talk to people. All-in-all, a month well balanced.
1. Political Tribes by Amy Chua. An accessible and easy-to-read overview of the dangers of tribalism in politics, something Chua has written about long before it became fashionable. I think she’s more convincing when talking about US foreign policy rather than domestic troubles. In any case, she makes some good points and the chapters on Vietnam and Venezuela were enlightening for me – Afghanistan and Iraq are more familiar territory.
2. Civilisations: How Do We Look. The Eye of Faith by Mary Beard. This is Beard’s companion to her BBC series of the same name. A very easy read (it is also long on pictures), it tackles issues like the role of the viewer in art and the representation of the divine. It takes a special talent and lots of knowledge to write this simply while still making some excellent points.
3. The State of Affairs by Esther Perel. The controversial American couple’s therapist writes about infidelity and when I say ‘controversial’, I mean ‘sane’. She pairs theory and personal insight with stories and observations from her practice and I find her very rational and helpful. Bottom line: infidelity is not the worst thing in the world.
4. Armastus vene kirjanduses (Love in Russian Literature) by Jelena Skulskaja. My Estonian book of the month looks at the depiction of love by more than 20 Russian authors from Pushkin to Dovlatov. I wasn’t initially too sure about this, as the style can be a bit difficult to follow and I have not read most of the texts Skulskaja analyses. It grew on me, however, and I think it’s more enjoyable if you don’t split the reading too much – the themes will emerge more clearly.
5. Conversations with Friends by Sally Rooney. This modern examination of relationships works well when read alongside Perel. Rooney is very young and that shows in the book, but she has also an extraordinary eye for dialogue and a maturity beyond her years. Well worth reading if you enjoy incisive looks at relationships. I’m really curious where she goes next.
6. Fire Sermon by Jamie Quatro. Another book about relationships that goes even better with Perel, as it focuses almost exclusively on infidelity. Like Rooney’s book, this is a debut novel and it’s also very well written, although Quatro’s main strength is conveying mood and atmosphere in small fragments while important moments are revealed almost in passing. Rather unusually for modern novels, it combines the theme of infidelity with religion, something I found fascinating.
7. The Obelisk Gate by N.K. Jemisin. The first installment (The Fifth Season) in Jemisin’s Broken Earth saga was mindblowing and the second somehow manages to maintain that insanely high standard. This is some of the best and most epic fantasy I’ve ever read and I highly recommend it to everyone who reads SFF. Probably not best for newbies, though, as Jemisin makes you work throughout the book and it’s easier when you have at least some idea how the genre works. Then again, what a way to start one’s fantasy reading career this would be…
8. Mother of all questions by Grace Chia. A poetry book that I bought in Singapore in the lovely Books Actually bookshop (it’s published by them as well). Not quite my kind of poetry, but I find poetry can be read like meditation and enjoyed even if it doesn’t rock your world. It’s such a personal thing anyway, difficult to judge.
9. Notes on Nationalism by George Orwell. This little Penguin modern includes three essays by Orwell – not necessarily his strongest ones, but average Orwell is still much better than most writers at their peak. The title one is the most substantial and while it has dated a bit, it’s still insightful and often eerily relevant. There is also a nice short essay about a friendly football match between Dynamo and Arsenal.
10. The Duke in His Castle by Truman Capote. This profile on Marlon Brando is a fantastic piece of journalism. Brando is at the height of his fame and Capote travels to Japan to interview him at his hotel during the filming of Sayonara. Brando is deeply intelligent and such a fascinating person and Capote really gets to him and presents it so skilfully. Very much recommended, especially as it’s such a quick read (another Penguin modern).
Did you have any wonderful reading experiences or crushing disappointments in March?
My reading year so far has been rather strange. It started off with two very good nonfiction reads followed by okay fiction. Then came February devoted to the Auster “4321” tome – which I regret really, spending that much time on something so mediocre. I had big life changes+eye trouble in March so I didn’t read much and what I did wasn’t memorable. And comes March BOOM I am reading the third book in a row that is well above average.Although I suspect that I have read my best one of 2018 already. Yes, the Aciman. Knowing myself what an emotional bastard I am I know that I may read books that are written better but I doubt I will read anything that will shatter me in this way. I am gravitating heavily towards very contemporary stuff currently and rather excited where will it take me. Always a pleasure to read your wrap-ups by the way. I haven’t done one in ages, mainly cos my monthly “book intake” in so small. I might consider doing a quarterly or bimonthly ones.
god, comes APRIL of course.
I’ve had a steadily good reading year and I feel it’ll keep on being good, as there are many things I really feel I want to read, quite a few of them strongly recommended by trusted sources. CMBYN is among them now, although I’m getting a bit worried, after seeing how much it has affected you.
These book round-ups aren’t the most artful of my posts, but I also find it useful when others do them (well, Suss mostly :)) – it helps with my book planning. I would also say that if you feel like it, you could easily do a monthly one as well, it gives you a little bit more room for insight.
It has affected me largely because a lot of it was personally relevant and tore up some memories from ages ago. Which doesn’t mean it is not well written. It is so adorably clumsy at times – just like teenage love is supposed to be. I was moved by the book for several reasons and I am highly sensitive to certain themes in literature and movies. You might not be traumatized by it I would rather think 🙂 And the book isn’t as heartbreaking as the movie was.
I’ll buy it next time I’m at the bookstore.
Yet again, I feel ashamed and exposed 🙈How are you managing to read so many books in a month?
One word after the other 😉
I have fallen in love with Aciman in the past couple of months. Somehow I read his Out of Egypt memoir totally unaware of the fact the he had also written CMBYN until I looked for interviews of his on YouTube and made the connection… Since then I have also read his False Papers book which consists of mostly essays about longing and nostalgia. I think I’m just going through a period of nostalgia and he is framing and verbalizing it for me. I urge, urge, urge you to read his Lavendar essay. Google it and it will come up on harvardreview.org. Anyone who is interested in perfume and has felt the fangs of nostalgia should read it. As always, inspired by the breadth and range of your reading.
Well, that settles it, will read him and also find the essay. I’m always intrigued when qrown-ups who read a lot fall in love with something – I think it gets more difficult with time, even if one enjoys reading very much.
Maya, have you read Enigma Variations by Aciman? It is supposed to be brilliant as well. I just placed an order for it 🙂
Hi Liina, I have a sample of EV on my Kindle but have not read it yet. I am sure that once I do, I will end up purchasing it. On the subject of Kindle- for the first time this past year I’ve started experiencing vision issues. Kindle has made it much easier to read, although it is not as pleasurable as holding a book and it goes without saying that the visceral sense of accomplishment you get from a physical pile of finished book is just not there. I also have a couple of Slater books waiting for me thanks to you (you are the big Slater fan , right?).
My copy of Enigma Variations arrived today 🙂 I am not sure if I am gonna read it next though as I had E.M Forsters “Maurice” kind of planned next. I agree about Kindle – it lacks the tactile etc experience. But I love my Kindle still – everything I want is only a click away which is good when you live in an area where the selection in the stores is limited. Also, I have had troubles with my eyes as well in the recent years and with Kindle I can make the text really big 😛 About James Salter – very happy to hear that I have had such influence 🙂 I am indeed a bit of a fan of his work. I have his essays and articles on my shelf waiting to be read.
I still haven’t read CMBYN!!! I am reading “Wait for Me!” by the late Deborah Devonshire because I found it at the secondhand bookstore near my hone that sells a lot of contemporary (female) English literature. A hundred pages in, I realized I read this book when it came out (eight years ago!). It hasn’t aged well I’m afraid. Too much wealthy white privilege. I do love the Mitfords and your blog name is an allusion to Nancy Mitford’s novel right?
Yes, it is Mitford-inspired. And I guess Nancy is also a bit problematic these days, but what saves her in my opinion is the edge of unhappiness and almost self-loathing in her work – she always cuts herself the deepest.
The whole family probably except for Decca is problematic I guess. I know from reading Wait for Me! that Nancy was very unlucky in love almost in a self-afflicted way, but when I read her novels I was too taken and distracted by their funniness to wonder whatever happened to the author to play down really bad endings for a large number of her characters. I was Googling to see if there was a blog that already had “Life in a Warm Climate” as its title when I found your own blog.